Getting married is a goal for many of you before clocking a certain age because you want to share your lives with that special man of your own and raise a family him.
Sad to note, not all men want to get married or better put, they want to flex enough better finally settling down. And to be realistic, not all ladies want to get married early either or even get married at all...funny?
But if you really do want to get married and are currently in a relationship, then you probably will be wasting your time if that guy you think will take you home to mama does any or all of these listed bellow. At least not at a time you are trying to settle down.
1. If he packed his Ghana Must Go and moved in with you, having no job, car.
Let's have a typical look at it. Why would any serious man want to move in with a lady he wants to settle down with? No job, no nothing.
The simple truth is that such guy only looks for ladies who will treat him like an igwe while he feeds fat on your salary, drive your car, eat your food, and sleep with you and beat you if need be.
If such man has to do all these at your expense, then he is not going to marry you. Make I hear say him marry you.
2. He has never not even by mistake talked about marriage.
Trust girls na.. They will always try to bring up marriage subject. Whenever you bring up this topic, he may go along with you to keep you happy or give you hopeless hope. Go further to ask him to set a date for your wedding and pay attention to his response or facial appearance.
Does your boyfriend change the subject? Does he just laugh the topic off or say "We'll talk about it later"?
Again you have to be mindful because he may attempt to divert your attention with STRAFF. If he have marriage plans for you, he will propose and or beginning discussing it with you. If he doesn't say anything about it, specifically, if you both have been together for years, even after turning your finger to a key holder in the early times when the love was shacking him, he is not going to marry you.
3. If he is a (baby daddy) from several women, none of whom he is married to.
So, he brags about how he has many children with different ladies shey? And you are happy that you are dating a celeb.. I sorry for you. You better pick race!
In the real sense, why would you want to be with a man who has fathered plenty children with plenty women and is still not having any of this women at home as wife, talk more of having his kids under one roof? You may even end of becoming his next baby mama and if by mistake or intentionally, you get pregnant for him, if he still doesn't talk about marriage, chances are he never will.
You will only be embarking on an endless quest if you for a minute think that you can change a man into becoming what you want him to be.
If you happen not to be in a relationship at the moment, do your pretty self some good by avoiding any man that behave as I have mentioned above.
Oya.. Do you have any addition to the once I have mentioned?
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